something u should NEVER do

its very unflattering laaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa…..

this is not too bad…
well, at least in my opinion its not as bad as being ‘on crack’!
dont even get me started…
thats coming soon…

and yes, i can be very straight forward and it may borderline on ’mean’
but hey, its a form of awareness as well
i genuinely want u guys to look good!
so please dont get me wrong.
cos i have made such mistakes too in the past.. and unknowingly i might still be doing it

here’s my mistake caught on camera.

visible turquoise thong..
i was extremely stupid once..
now i’m just plain stupid..
hahahahaha

what makes men go ‘ooooo la la~’

many would say that men are categorised into 2 groups..
boobs and butt
but i beg to differ…

men nowadays go for more than just that..

now of course if we’re looking at the surface, men nowadays also look at legs, eyes, smile, the curve of our backs, hair.. bla bla bla..
and if u ask me, they’re darn picky!
but so are us ladies anyways

so, lets talk bout the physical attributes that makes them go nuts

1) the Boobs
of course if a women has HUGE ASS knockers, which men in their sane mind wouldnt love to stare and fantasize, right?
of course some men handle it better than others
whilst some poor bastards tend to rush to the loo to spend some quality time with their first wife…
*cough* *u need help* *cough*
and one thing i’ve noticed of late, is that chinese girls nowadays are popping boobs!
chinese girls with boobs!
its a bloody miracle!
last time chinse girls are deemed to be flat front and back..
but damn, i wonder whats in the food nowadays cos us chinese girls sure have huge knockers!
and yes, i sedar diri… i own a mirror~
i KNOW i do NOT have huge boobs..
i’m like a typical chinese..
flat in the front..
positively bent inwards as well
as for fine ladies with kickass boobs, think victoria secret models, jennifer love hewitt!

2) the Butt
now, the butt, from what i gather, is also a huge turn on..
frankly i do not see how and why..
but apparently if u get a compliment from a punjabi guy, its an honour!
but i do have to agree that some girls do have a damn hot ass!
if u’ve seen ‘i now pronounce u chuck and larry’, jessica biel’s ass was……… astounding!

damn… now who wouldnt wanna bite that ass huh~
(others would be kim kardashian, beyonce, hayden panettiere..)

3) the Legs
the legs, if they are toned and looking like they stretch for miles, gives some guys some ‘walking’ fantasies
(guys, u know what i mean)
and a lot of females nowadays are sporting really hot legs..
now if we’re talking bout actresses, legs the like of cameron diaz, megan fox, all the VS models, eva longoria, sarah jessica parker, charlize theron, gwen stefani..
the list goes on and on and on… like their legs (i know.. i’m lame)

sorry.. no nicer picture anywhere..
and dayme~
i want legs like hers!!!

4) the Eyes
the eyes are said to be the window to a person’s soul..
yea, if u’re trying to bed her that is…
but i do agree that the eyes are really important..
with a sharp pair of eyes, it’ll make a girl look mysterious..
as thou there is something up her sleeves
too bad i’ve got ching chong eyes…
would have been damn ‘yeay’ to have some nice deep set eyes thou..
sigh~
celeb eyes like lindsey lohan’s, angelina jolie, megan fox, aishwarya rai, evengeline lily, carmen electra, kate beckinsale’s all screams SEXY~
but thats cos their eyes always looks so ‘inviting’

5) the Smile
a nice and easy smile always brightens up the day..
and i truly believe in that!
a girl who has a ready and genuine smile always grabs the attention of the people around her
ppl are generally drawn to a person who looks the most carefree and friendly
i think the smile is the best god-given gift anyone ever has!
and by smiling alone it automatically transforms u into an even more beautiful being!
i personally ALWAYS have a wide smile…
like this

and i know i sometimes look like a monkey for smiling so wide….
but its attractive, dont u think?
and there is the other kind of smile, the more subtle and alluring..
like this, which i can never pull off..

isnt it damn straight out sexy-fying?!
*grins*

6) the lower back curve
now this i dont really get either..
but apparently this is another straight out sexy ‘gift’
and i find this trait to be extra annoying..
cos to find fitting clothes is A ROYAL PAIN IN THE ASS!
but some men loves this cos they can put their arms around her better..
better coverage it seems.. hahaha
nicer to hug..


the pictures i got from friends.. needless to say its from guys..
sexy?
u decide

7) the CFM look
if u dont know what CFM means, u suck
it means ‘come fuck me’
and i must agree, this look is HOT DAMN! (copy eddy haha)
this look SCREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAMS SEXY SEXY SEXY
and this is another one i can never pull off..
my face is way too happy happy..
but damn… certain women who has this look naturally.. damn hot..
ppl like angelina jolie, megan fox, kate beckinsale, liz hurley..
make men wanna grab them right there and do noty things to them


damn hot right?!

8 ) the Lips
i swear, the lips is a biggie that makes men melt!
a pair of ‘oh-so-kissable’ lips are always sexy..

dont u just feel like grabbing her and kissing her? and kiss, and kiss, and kiss and kiss and kiss? hahahahahaha
ok ok.. i’ll stop…
i know not all men fancy her kinda lips..
but hey, they’re still hot nonetheless!

9) the Look of Innocence
yea… looking innocent gains u points as well..
but this is rather subjective..
some men likes the stronger more powerful look, some like them cute, sweet and innocent
thou if i were a guy, i’d probably go for the ‘woman on top’ look… hahaha
i’d probably head for ppl like angelina jolie and of course megan fox..
i’m NOT lesbian or by…
and speaking of cute sweet and innocent, celebs like evengeline lily, kristin kreuk, drew barrymore, jennifer aniston, jennifer garner, jessica alba, naomi watts, reese witherspoon all falls into this category

nice la… but not really my type…
moving on!

10) the Hair
ahahahaha.. now this topic is pretty interesting..
most men adore women with nice long hair..
it means that they can run their fingers thru our hair and play with it and stroke it
this is cos of the conditioning that unconsciously tells the guys that long hair means feminity
and undoubtedly the long hair attracts attention
and even better if it is well kept and groomed
men throughout the centuries have loved women with soft long hair
hence the term ‘a women’s crowning glory’
but the diversity of today’s word also shows that women with short hair can be equally as sexy
like how halle berry, alyssa milano, sharon stone, rihanna and paris hilton have all made the short bob a fashion statement
celebs with nice long hair?
think lindsey lohan, demi moore, megan fox, jessica simpson, jennifer aniston, eva longoria…….

11) the Scent
i know for one that a women’s scent drives men NUTS!
men specially love to smell a woman who just came outta the shower..
and if u’ve just washed your hair, dont tie it up, cos the scent will seriously drive them nuts
no joke!
they’d wanna be near u all the time!
better still if u’ve got some light perfume on u..
IMPORTANT! too strong is an overkill!
the key to the scent is by being minimal
make it so subtle that it there, but not quite there
so it keeps the guys panting for more
they’ll be hung up on u even after u leave!
ahahahahaha…

12) Tongue Piercing
some find this disgusting, some find it SUPER DAMN HOT! ahahahaha
i personally find it damn sexy..
its nice to play with, looks interesting.. sparks conversations
why’d u think i got one?! hehehe

13) the Shoulders
nice shoulders means nice head rest.. hahaha…
some girls have way too skinny shoulders..
those who have perfect ones are hard to find..
and of course, if a girl knows how to play around with her shoulders, it could come of as super sexy..
especially if she does the whole ‘look over the shoulder’ thing..
i think it melts the men.. hahaha..
(refer to the picture of jessica alba in the lower back category)

14) the Collar Bone
now i heard bout this from a friend of mine…
he finds the protruding collar bone extremely sexy..
not sure what he sees in it thou..
havent gotten down to askin him yet..
he is now currently in china shooting a tv series.. (dont perasan)
i guess it is cos it looks nice to lick?
hmmm… not sure…

actually, there are a lot of things that can be said bout what turns a man on..
men are creatures of sight..
so if i were to list down everything that makes a guy go nuts, it’ll probably never end..
so whatever else that is not mentioned in here.. well, too bad la.. hahaha
everything else is up to imagination already..
or rather, u ppl should know better.. hahaha
and if u still need me to list them down, well, u’re a tad sad..
go ask all your ‘mates’ and i’m sure they’ll be more than happy to oblige

now for some personality traits that are OH SO HOT
1) confidence
no matter what they say, most women face confidence issues..
a lot of them suffer from low self-esteem and sometimes i do not blame them..
the media is sometimes tough when it comes to physical traits..
but a woman who has self confidence is really sexy…
it tells ppl that she’s sure of herself and that little things wont get her down
i personally find it very alluring if a girl can laugh at herself thru her clumsiness or her mistakes..
but of course when i say mistakes, i mean the good and harmless ones la..
it is generally hard for any one person to laugh at themselves..
the first reaction of many would be to shy away
but honestly, if u are confidant enough, these things dont matter
what others think of u does not matter..
if u live your life with the ‘i dont give two shits’ attitude, providing its the right kind of course, all the irrelevant things wont get u down.. and than u’ll find that life is way easier to live!
and let me set this straight, i sometimes do battle some insecurity issues as well
but once i detect it, i try my utmost best to change it
so hey! work on it! and smile!
it’ll be hard at first but it’ll do u good!

2) Simplicity
now of course i’m gonna stress on this! hahahaha
even my blog is a spin-off of ‘simple’
and why i say simplicity?
well, simplicity means a lot of things..
but the main point is how u view life..
and being simple would mean not having much expectations..
so little things, either good or bad, will bring about pleasant surprises or lesser heartache
and also, being simple would mean that u’ll find beauty in the little things in life
things like being able to detect some good in a so called bad day
or being able to see the beauty in all the faults and wrongs that is going on in or around u/the world
being simple would mean demanding less
and in certain situations, it’ll be easier to satisfy your needs or wants
so being simple isnt a bad thing.. it doesnt mean that u’re shallow.. or that u’re ignorant..
to be simple is to first know the depths of things around u, and to appreciate the things that are often overlooked
and than after all that, wisdom sets in, and u’ll start to see that the world and everything around u is actually just that simple.
that simplicity in life comes from knowing that your life is in your hands and your hands alone.
that whatever u do is YOUR choice..
and that EVERYTHING is by choice…
it is by choice that we are ignorant
our choice to be angry
our choice to be violent
our choice to lie
our choice to go down that path of uncertainty
but in all these, bare in mind that whatever u choose brings with it responsibilities
it is just that simple
life is just that simple.

3) the Powerful
women who knows what they want, who acts the way they think is right, to stand up for what they think is right, is a go-getter in whatever they do, to empower others around them, to touch the lives of people
this is the kind of women who demands respect
these are the women who commands attention
and for the women who knows of their ‘power’ and puts it to good use, i salute u..
the powerhouses whom i greatly respect are personalities like oprah, angelina jolie and princess diana
people with great hearts and great minds..
respect.

4) Straight Forwardness
being straight forward aint such a bad thing…
and honestly speaking, i cannot understand certain women!
say yes but is actually no.. say no but its actually a yes..
oh COME ON! get a life..
say it straight out!
being honest and straightforward gets u places!
of course u’ve gotta have some tact as well
but generally, wouldnt it be way easier if u speak your mind?
there would be lesser misunderstanding, lesser fights..
it’ll make the world a better place wei…
think bout it…
if there is something thats bothering u, dont keep it inside…
cos its gonna accumulate and accumulate thru time that after a while it’ll explode!
so confront it..
face your fears!
i know its hard…
i still shy away from some of my fears sometimes
and to me that is a weakness of character!
no matter how hard it is, i am constantly pushing myself to face my fears
for i believe that if u do not face your fears and be perfectly and truly honest with yourself, u’ll forever be stuck where u are
and i do not mean physically stuck in that age..
but rather, mentality wise, u’ll forever be at a stand still of that moment in time when u decide to put things aside
to be straightforward with yourself, u’ll first have to be willing to want change
and let me tell u, IT IS NOT EASY!
but with some will power, and perseverance, u CAN pull thru!
and it gets easier
just TRY…
after u get past the first wall, u’ll find that the world is a little lighter and cheery
go on, make the change!
i’ll cheer u on!

5) Understanding
to understand is to put yourself in the other person’s shoes
to understand is to put your own selfish needs aside for that one second and to think of the other person
and understanding breaks down walls,
it stops fights/wars
what is there not to love in a girl who tries to understand and to give

6) Big Heart
to love and to cherish and to try to understand and to accept.
to reach out and to touch lives and to give and to live
these are the traits of a person with a big heart..
and why men digs this?
cos they can see that u’re genuine..
but OF COURSE YOUR INTENTIONS MUST BE PURE LA!!!
if u’re faking it, dont even think bout having a happy ending
and please, do not TRY TOO HARD..
it doesnt work as well..

7) Genuine/Authenticity
this is something that would always shine through
even if u’re wronged, always be true to yourself and to others
eventually the truth will prevail (i know i sound so preachy hahaha)
but yea, always be yourself, dont try to be someone u’re not…
and people will tend to accept u as u are..
there really isnt any point in being somebody else
it’ll bring u no satisfaction
be true to yourself and the world will gravitate towards u!

8) Independence
nowadays, men tend to fancy women who are independent.
no longer do they crave women who are needy and clingy
but mind u, some men still do.. cos they need to feel needed..
but for the rest of the world who’s moving on, they’d want a girl who can take care of herself
a lady who knows how to take care of herself, and to learn how to give space when need be is oh so attractive!
it not only says a lot about your character, but also it reflects on everything else that u do
of course there is a limit as well… not independence to the point of feminism
no matter how much a men fancies an independent woman, at the end of the day, he’ll still like to feel as thou he is needed and loved as well
and i made that mistake, once..
and i’ve also made the mistake of being overly caring which was mistaken as clingy
the key is to strike a healthy balance all the time

9) Self Respect
if u dont respect yourself, how do u expect others to do the same?
think bout it

and the general summary of the perfect woman of most men’s desire

told u the bf’s shirt is so damn hot…
bluek~!

i’m not perfect, and i dont strive to be
thou i work towards being the best that i can be
constantly learning, changing and reaching out to others

honestly, the key IS to find a balance and a sound and rational mind