a simplicitacious life











u know a person is mature when they make a conscious decision to make a choice. 
and of course, better still if they are able to make a decision and stick to it and bear responsibility for their actions.

i find it really odd these days that a lot of people, at whatever age, do not want to or do not know how to stop, think then act. 
and of course, i’m not the most mature person alive.. neither am i suggesting that i am or will ever be..
but sometimes u just feel like wringing their necks and slapping them into reality.

funnier still is that these people can turn back and call others childish when they themselves are living proof of the things that they just claimed another to be!

to make a choice and be responsible for your actions is to first be patient, and then reasonable.
is it that hard to take a few seconds or minutes to think about what u are about to do or say next?

things that are said or done in the heat of the moment, whether it is regretted later on or not, cannot be taken back.
words cannot be taken back.
worse is if u dont even realise that the things u just said are hurtful..
things that are said will follow and haunt u for the rest of your life whether u want it to or not.
granted that i sometimes am very very tempted to say things just because i feel like it.
but then i stop myself because i dont think that it is beneficiary to anyone.
and on occasions, i do say things i regret later on but i take full responsibility for it. 

every thing in life is based on a choice.
every choice in life is a step u take towards being a better u.
so why make the choice to not make a choice?

ignorance is not bliss in this case.
the more u ignore choice making, the more u hurt the people who care for u. 

like it or not, making a responsible choice is a part of life 
and i know that to do the right thing is a million times harder than giving in to evil lil’ ignorance.
kick it, ignore it, abuse it all u want..
its not going to change the fact that u’ll have to face reality and yourself to make a choice however hard it may be.



{November 6, 2008}   females and bags

see, i never really understood the bag craze and obsession that females have

but to be absolutely fair to female kind,
i know some men who have more bags than an average female

however it still does not justify how one person have to have so many bags!
and its not like you use all of them
or can use all of them at one go
and the thing is, after u go through your collection,
u’d realize that there are definitely a couple of bags that dont get used that often or at all

i’m not saying that it is a sin or that its wrong to have so many bags
i just dont understand it
hahaha…

at least if u have heaps of shoes/heels
i’d understand, a little more, as compared to one having heaps of bags

shoes can change the outfit entirely
but then again, if u’ve already got heaps of clothes to begin with,
one or two pairs of heels are sufficient

okay, lets be brutally honest
after giving it much thought,
i’ve concluded that women only need two bags

1. a big handbag/shoulder bag
(anything from a tote to a satchel or a hobo)
reason being that this bag should be able to hold everything from your wallet to pens and even a book, if you must
and if u get it in a neutral colour, say white, brown or black, it should be able to match every other casual to smart casual outfit
of course u should invest and splurge if u are going to use them everyday and for every other event
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satchel from fossil

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hobo from fossil

practical and pleasing to the eyes, no?
okay fine, i’m bias towards fossil hahaha
i’m currently only using some black bag i got for 70% at zara..
if u know me or seen me around, chances are that u’ve seen me with it
i go everywhere with it..
except when i have the laptop with me
its huge, its practical, i like it

2. a clutch
personally i have no idea why anyone would use such a thing cos its so darn tiny u can hardly put anything in it!
BUT, its also something that looks good with dresses for more formal events..
if u’re a colourful dress person, a black or white would be perfect
if u’re a black or white dress person, a gold or black would be great
it doesnt necessarily have to be boring and one toned
u can always get something that has some simple designs on it
but with the clutch, simplicity is always the best so that it goes with just about everything

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clutch from jimmy choo

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no idea by who

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chanel clutch

damnit there aint pictures of nice clutches online!

personally, i dont even own a clutch..
what i always do is just put some cash somewhere (not telling u where)
leave my IC with a friend (or not bring it at all)
and only hold my phone
(how unclassy aint it.. but who cares)

so there u go..
my reasoning for 2 bags per female..
i know there’ll be some girls wanting to beat me up right now
sorry la dear.. hahaha..
just never understood

then again, ppl do things without having a reason to
so i guess its fine if women wanna have a fetish with the bags

shop away ppl!



{November 6, 2008}   a slow changing nation

i wish i was in chicago watching newly elected Sen. Barack Obama give his victory speech.
i wish i could stand in the crowd along with hundreds of thousands of people screaming “YES WE CAN!”

it was truely a moment in history.

for me, personally, it shows the world that the states is ready, or rather, desperate, for change
especially when there’s the economic death in foresight

i think he’s a smart and sincere leader (from what i see)
even thought i dont agree with everything
but he’s the best man for the job

here’s a transcript of his speech..
took it off CNN

Hello, Chicago.

If there is anyone out there who still doubts that America is a place where all things are possible, who still wonders if the dream of our founders is alive in our time, who still questions the power of our democracy, tonight is your answer.

It’s the answer told by lines that stretched around schools and churches in numbers this nation has never seen, by people who waited three hours and four hours, many for the first time in their lives, because they believed that this time must be different, that their voices could be that difference.

It’s the answer spoken by young and old, rich and poor, Democrat and Republican, black, white, Hispanic, Asian, Native American, gay, straight, disabled and not disabled. Americans who sent a message to the world that we have never been just a collection of individuals or a collection of red states and blue states.

We are, and always will be, the United States of America.

It’s the answer that led those who’ve been told for so long by so many to be cynical and fearful and doubtful about what we can achieve to put their hands on the arc of history and bend it once more toward the hope of a better day.

It’s been a long time coming, but tonight, because of what we did on this date in this election at this defining moment change has come to America.

A little bit earlier this evening, I received an extraordinarily gracious call from Sen. McCain.

Sen. McCain fought long and hard in this campaign. And he’s fought even longer and harder for the country that he loves. He has endured sacrifices for America that most of us cannot begin to imagine. We are better off for the service rendered by this brave and selfless leader.

I congratulate him; I congratulate Gov. Palin for all that they’ve achieved. And I look forward to working with them to renew this nation’s promise in the months ahead.

I want to thank my partner in this journey, a man who campaigned from his heart, and spoke for the men and women he grew up with on the streets of Scranton and rode with on the train home to Delaware, the vice president-elect of the United States, Joe Biden.

And I would not be standing here tonight without the unyielding support of my best friend for the last 16 years the rock of our family, the love of my life, the nation’s next first lady Michelle Obama.

Sasha and Malia I love you both more than you can imagine. And you have earned the new puppy that’s coming with us to the new White House.

And while she’s no longer with us, I know my grandmother’s watching, along with the family that made me who I am. I miss them tonight. I know that my debt to them is beyond measure.

To my sister Maya, my sister Alma, all my other brothers and sisters, thank you so much for all the support that you’ve given me. I am grateful to them.

And to my campaign manager, David Plouffe, the unsung hero of this campaign, who built the best — the best political campaign, I think, in the history of the United States of America.

To my chief strategist David Axelrod who’s been a partner with me every step of the way.

To the best campaign team ever assembled in the history of politics you made this happen, and I am forever grateful for what you’ve sacrificed to get it done.

But above all, I will never forget who this victory truly belongs to. It belongs to you. It belongs to you.

I was never the likeliest candidate for this office. We didn’t start with much money or many endorsements. Our campaign was not hatched in the halls of Washington. It began in the backyards of Des Moines and the living rooms of Concord and the front porches of Charleston. It was built by working men and women who dug into what little savings they had to give $5 and $10 and $20 to the cause.

It grew strength from the young people who rejected the myth of their generation’s apathy who left their homes and their families for jobs that offered little pay and less sleep.

It drew strength from the not-so-young people who braved the bitter cold and scorching heat to knock on doors of perfect strangers, and from the millions of Americans who volunteered and organized and proved that more than two centuries later a government of the people, by the people, and for the people has not perished from the Earth.

This is your victory.

And I know you didn’t do this just to win an election. And I know you didn’t do it for me.

You did it because you understand the enormity of the task that lies ahead. For even as we celebrate tonight, we know the challenges that tomorrow will bring are the greatest of our lifetime — two wars, a planet in peril, the worst financial crisis in a century.

Even as we stand here tonight, we know there are brave Americans waking up in the deserts of Iraq and the mountains of Afghanistan to risk their lives for us.

There are mothers and fathers who will lie awake after the children fall asleep and wonder how they’ll make the mortgage or pay their doctors’ bills or save enough for their child’s college education.

There’s new energy to harness, new jobs to be created, new schools to build, and threats to meet, alliances to repair.

The road ahead will be long. Our climb will be steep. We may not get there in one year or even in one term. But, America, I have never been more hopeful than I am tonight that we will get there.

I promise you, we as a people will get there.

There will be setbacks and false starts. There are many who won’t agree with every decision or policy I make as president. And we know the government can’t solve every problem.

But I will always be honest with you about the challenges we face. I will listen to you, especially when we disagree. And, above all, I will ask you to join in the work of remaking this nation, the only way it’s been done in America for 221 years — block by block, brick by brick, calloused hand by calloused hand.

What began 21 months ago in the depths of winter cannot end on this autumn night.

This victory alone is not the change we seek. It is only the chance for us to make that change. And that cannot happen if we go back to the way things were.

It can’t happen without you, without a new spirit of service, a new spirit of sacrifice.

So let us summon a new spirit of patriotism, of responsibility, where each of us resolves to pitch in and work harder and look after not only ourselves but each other.

Let us remember that, if this financial crisis taught us anything, it’s that we cannot have a thriving Wall Street while Main Street suffers.

In this country, we rise or fall as one nation, as one people. Let’s resist the temptation to fall back on the same partisanship and pettiness and immaturity that has poisoned our politics for so long.

Let’s remember that it was a man from this state who first carried the banner of the Republican Party to the White House, a party founded on the values of self-reliance and individual liberty and national unity.

Those are values that we all share. And while the Democratic Party has won a great victory tonight, we do so with a measure of humility and determination to heal the divides that have held back our progress.

As Lincoln said to a nation far more divided than ours, we are not enemies but friends. Though passion may have strained, it must not break our bonds of affection.

And to those Americans whose support I have yet to earn, I may not have won your vote tonight, but I hear your voices. I need your help. And I will be your president, too.

And to all those watching tonight from beyond our shores, from parliaments and palaces, to those who are huddled around radios in the forgotten corners of the world, our stories are singular, but our destiny is shared, and a new dawn of American leadership is at hand.

To those — to those who would tear the world down: We will defeat you. To those who seek peace and security: We support you. And to all those who have wondered if America’s beacon still burns as bright: Tonight we proved once more that the true strength of our nation comes not from the might of our arms or the scale of our wealth, but from the enduring power of our ideals: democracy, liberty, opportunity and unyielding hope.

That’s the true genius of America: that America can change. Our union can be perfected. What we’ve already achieved gives us hope for what we can and must achieve tomorrow.

This election had many firsts and many stories that will be told for generations. But one that’s on my mind tonight’s about a woman who cast her ballot in Atlanta. She’s a lot like the millions of others who stood in line to make their voice heard in this election except for one thing: Ann Nixon Cooper is 106 years old.

She was born just a generation past slavery; a time when there were no cars on the road or planes in the sky; when someone like her couldn’t vote for two reasons — because she was a woman and because of the color of her skin.

And tonight, I think about all that she’s seen throughout her century in America — the heartache and the hope; the struggle and the progress; the times we were told that we can’t, and the people who pressed on with that American creed: Yes we can.

At a time when women’s voices were silenced and their hopes dismissed, she lived to see them stand up and speak out and reach for the ballot. Yes we can.

When there was despair in the dust bowl and depression across the land, she saw a nation conquer fear itself with a New Deal, new jobs, a new sense of common purpose. Yes we can.

When the bombs fell on our harbor and tyranny threatened the world, she was there to witness a generation rise to greatness and a democracy was saved. Yes we can.

She was there for the buses in Montgomery, the hoses in Birmingham, a bridge in Selma, and a preacher from Atlanta who told a people that “We Shall Overcome.” Yes we can.

A man touched down on the moon, a wall came down in Berlin, a world was connected by our own science and imagination.

And this year, in this election, she touched her finger to a screen, and cast her vote, because after 106 years in America, through the best of times and the darkest of hours, she knows how America can change.

Yes we can.

America, we have come so far. We have seen so much. But there is so much more to do. So tonight, let us ask ourselves — if our children should live to see the next century; if my daughters should be so lucky to live as long as Ann Nixon Cooper, what change will they see? What progress will we have made?

This is our chance to answer that call. This is our moment.

This is our time, to put our people back to work and open doors of opportunity for our kids; to restore prosperity and promote the cause of peace; to reclaim the American dream and reaffirm that fundamental truth, that, out of many, we are one; that while we breathe, we hope. And where we are met with cynicism and doubts and those who tell us that we can’t, we will respond with that timeless creed that sums up the spirit of a people: Yes, we can.
Thank you. God bless you. And may God bless the United States of America.

how inspiring

:)

YES WE CAN!



et cetera